financial domination
Responsible rinsing
Cash is king, consent is the whole hierarchy combined.
I want your money, but what I want more is a sustainable relationship where you come back and give me money in a way that doesn’t damage you or our relationship.
Read MoreWhat are you doing today in service for me today? What are you doing for me every day? What more could you do for me? Your gifting to her is an act of service. What are you offering me that will improve my life and through giving improve yours? Giving feels wonderful, don’t you want to give me your all? Become useful, give to me. Become better, give me more. The gift of giving, should be every day. Give the gift of joy by devoting our pay to me.
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Financial management, sometimes known as financial domination or FinDom. There are a multitude of different ways of financially managing a submissives money in a consensual manner which suits both parties.
I personally subscribe to the type financial management where we overlook a submissives finances and work out where the submissive could spend their money differently and repurpose the unnecessary spending to other areas. Perhaps we can look at your excess spending on eating out or smoking and repurpose this towards a not for profit or towards my phone bill.
I have submissives who I send my bills to every month and pay my: phone bill (although I have two phones, so if someone wants to pay for the other, that would work for me); pedicure and manicure bills and I am always looking for someone to pay my wine bills (mine is a pinot noir). The submissive and I have a discussion around what their spending capacity cap is or we have an overview of their finances when we begin financial management.
How the financial management looks varies from one submissive to another, some like to see photos of me spending their money, other prefer me to send them individual bills and then we message throughout the month so they can see how much I have left to enjoy of their newly spare cash. The process of financial management brings me great joy as I enjoy seeing where someones personal allowances go and I like working towards goals with individuals. This is a win win situation.
My submissives say that they enjoy financial management as they are able to give what they can afford and some are able do this in a way that allows them to be more healthy (such as the eating less take away food or smoking less) and they know that I am able to better enjoy myself with their money. There are many dynamics of financial management and I personally, do not subscribe to the female supremacy model, I want you to give me this money willingly because you believe that I deserve it and you want me to enhance my life and have fun. Subsequently you get to enjoy personalised photos of me enjoying myself with the cash that you have given me. Everyone wins.
If you would like to offer some monthly tributes or arrange to pay one of my monthly bills feel free to email me to discuss this further.
